Susan Jeffers says in her book 'Embracing Uncertainty', that if we embrace the good that can come from whatever life hands us, we have come a long way in learning how to embrace uncertainty . 

It does us no good to stew in the unfairness of life or have a 'pity-party' of one!  Life is full of uncertainty and unexpected mishaps and circumstances.  How we react to them and how we relate to ourselves and others is the key to our lasting happiness. 

Try to look for the gift in every situation --- no matter how 'bad' it may initially seem.  There is always a silver lining if we're just willing to look for it!!!